Sometimes the inner child will actually sabotage our
attempts to be successful or to do the things we think we should do,
because secretly the child knows that its needs will not be met by what
we‘re striving for. Often, when people have a block about being
successful in life, the block comes from the inner child whose needs are
not being met. The child may stop you from being professionally
successful until you start to give it more nurturing, more love, more
time to play, or whatever it needs.
I am giving my inner child the love and
attention it needs.
J'ai souvent réfléchi à cette question. Je suis persuadée d'être passée totalement à côté la plupart du temps. Peut-être par excès de réflexion? Les choses les plus évidentes sont vraiment parfois difficiles à percevoir. Mais petit à petit cette affirmation commence à faire sens dans mon esprit. Il faut que trouve un certain équilibre. Entre choyer mon enfant intérieur et rester dans l'énergie. Les deux sont certainement compatibles - choyer ne veux pas dire "laxiste".
Et voilà un tirage qui complète bien mes doutes. (Merci Aegiale!)
|4 - The Builder
You have the opportunity to
make decisions through intellectual reasoning, rather than your emotions
or intuition. You may ask yourself: "What am I building? Are the
foundations of my life based on strong structures? Are my boundaries
clear and well tended?" You are ready to take responsibility for a
project where you have authority over others, and where your leadership
skills can shine. What kind of a leader are you? Do you lead by
example or by dominating? Are you secure enough in your own abilities
that you can share power with others? Do you take into account the long-term consequences of the decisions that you make? You may also
exemplify the Good Father who loves, guides and protects his children —
and gives them the security of clear boundaries by disciplining them
|9 - the Hermit
You are being challenged to
spend time in sacred solitude. You need to withdraw from the world to
focus on your inner life and spirituality. Perhaps you have been
wounded in the "wars of the world," or perhaps you are fatigued and
empty from putting out so much energy, especially if you are a
caregiver. Your well is empty and it needs to be filled. Take some time
out for a retreat. Go away to the mountains or the sea, by yourself,
without partner or friends. Spend time outside in nature, observing the
changes in your environment day by day. Your inner wisdom and sense of
well-being will grow effortlessly the more time you spend outside. When
you once again enter community life, others will be drawn to the light
they see inside you and may come to you for guidance. For part of your
purpose is to share what you've learned with others.
|19 - the Sun|
Resolution comes with letting
your light shine in the world. You may find a big smile on your face.
With a huge burst of energy, your spirit is shouting out a great big
YES! Perhaps you have accomplished a long term goal or are receiving
accolades and attention for the good work you have done. You are
healthy, energetic and enthusiastic with a warm and generous heart.
It's time to celebrate and get out and play in the sunshine. Sing,
dance, make love, let your creativity flow. Shine on !
Toutes ces contradictions... C'est bien ça qui est difficile, trouver l'équilibre ebtre vie intérieure et besoin de contact ave les autres, entre gravité et légèreté. La vie quoi.
Au passage, "The Buider" may be reparing my wooden house...
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